Jem runs workshops and events, as well as leading sessions and giving talks for groups, retreats and organisations.
If you would like to book Jem to run a workshop
or to give a talk contact her here
jem ayres

Book Jem to speak or facilitate at your event

“Jem is a gifted and inspirational speaker, when sharing her story she invites the audience into her truth and her authenticity. This enables her to deliver a talk that not only inspires and motivates but invites the audience to ponder the bigger questions about life, health and pleasure. Listening to Jem is effortless.”

Jem tailors her talks and facilitation to suit the needs of the group.  From the more conservative to the radical, she can win over any audience, spreading her empowering message and making discussions around sexuality accessible to all.

Workshop and Talk subjects:

Jem speaks on a wide range of subjects and no two talks are ever the same.

If there is a subject which interested you but isn’t covered here do contact Jem to discuss.

  • Outercourse – Pleasure Beyond The Genitals
  • The Art of Receiving
  • Expanding Womens Pleasure: What Lies Beyond the Clitoris
  • Reframing Mens Pleasure: Soft Cock Rocks
  • How To Speak To Your Children About Pleasure, Consent And Their Bodies.
  • Boundaries and Consent
  • Erotic Health
  • Finding Your Authentic ‘Yes’
  • Pleasure Responsibility
  • Yes To Pleasure = Yes To Life
  • The Healing Power Of Orgasm
  • Overcoming Cancer Through Veganism, Self-love And The Power Of Belief.
  • From Cancer to Freedom: The Power Of Choice
“What Jem does is another level.”
1st Oct - 19th nov

online: in your living room!
The empowered womans
book club

This isn’t just any Book Club….this is an Empowered Womans Book Club facilitated by Certified S*x Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres.

So many women ask me to recommend them books on s*xual self-development, intimacy and relating. My library on this subject is extensive, with so much wisdom, but the work isn’t just in the reading….its in the processing, discussing and the putting into practise via the homework I set.
Lets shift this shame around female s*xuality and pleasure!

This group will meet online evey week covering a different section of the book each week.
We’ll be working through books based on Womens S*xual Empowerment, with plenty of time for questions and suggestions of exercises.

Whether you just love a good book, really want to develop your s*xual self or just fancy being part of a new supportive group of vibrant women, this Book Club is the place. Its all totally optional, friendly and relaxed….so if you skip a chapter come along anyway and learn from others insights and experiences. You can share as little or as much as you like, no pressure. The Book is only the starting point.

Sessions to include:
– Facilitated discussion and chapter reflection
– Group coaching around relevant s*xy topics
– Homework set with optional practises and exercises to do at home
– A space for sharing
– Time for Questions
– S*x Coaching wisdom and insights
– Plenty of laughter

Don’t underestimate the power of a group of supportive women. I wouldn’t be a S*x Coach today without my supportive S*xy Sisters!!!!
This is a great way to access my work for those who can’t afford one-to-one coaching or bodywork with me.

Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps To Buried Pleasure
Sheri Winston

Get your copy from Amazon in preparation for the first meeting and read chapters one and two!

Venue: In your living room!!! (Its online so email me to book your place and you’ll be sent the link to join)
Times: 7.30-9.30pm
Dates: Weekly sessions from 1st October
Wk 1: Oct 1st – Chapters 1 & 2
Wk 2: Oct 8th – Chapters 3 & 4
Wk 3: Oct 15th – Chapters 5 & 6
Wk 4: Oct 22nd – Chapter 7
Wk 5: Oct 29th – Chapter 8
Wk 6:Nov 5th – Chapter 9
Wk 7:Nov 12th – Chapters 10 & 11
Wk 8:Nov 19th – Chapter 12

Cost: Week one free. Following 7 weeks: £70

23rd - 27th OCT 2019

Osho leela, Dorset, UK

Jem will be offering:

Orgasmic Yoga:
The Art of Mindful Self-Pleasure 

How can we step away from the feelings of shame around our own bodies and own self-pleasure and learn the art of loving and mindful self-touch. We can learn new ways to approach our own bodies use our sexual energy to fuel ourselves without needing to give, or take, to be a voyeur or an exhibitionist, Connecting intimately with yourself can nourish your soul and helps you connect with others in a healthier way also. Its about growth, healing, intimacy….AND pleasure! 

Orgasmic Embodiment

Orgasmic energy is healing for our mental, physical and erotic health! We can learn how to raise and harness our sexual energy within our own bodies, and guide this to where we need it most. Using breathe, sound, movement and touch we can learn to ride this energy and live life on the edge of orgasm.

1st dec 2019

brady arts centre, london

Ecstatic Cacao Breathwork with Jem Ayres

This is going to be a day long festival extravaganza, celebrating raw cacao & chocolate in all its manifestations. The menu will include nearly 10 hours of ecstatic dance, Cacao Ceremonies, Conscious Connection with Helen Thatcher, Contact Improvisation, Kirtan and Sound Healings. Workshops on chocolate yoga, Cacao and Sex, Cacao as a sacred medium, Cacao and Healing, Drumming Circle by Somesh, Cacao and visioning. Presentations from a Chocolate Shaman and on The Science of Chocolate, Holistic massages and therapies, stalls, raw chocolate market and products, in-house cafe.

Get your tickets here: https://dayofcacao.eventbrite.co.uk